Does a Man "Want" or "Looks" for you?

Find out if the man you are interested in dating "wants" or is "looking". I realize that there is a difference in a man that wants and a man that is looking for you. A man that "wants" a good woman or wife will be complacent in his dating strategies. He will not look to please you because he "wants" you to please him. He expects everything will come to him. These are men, or boys I should say, that will allow women or young ladies to chase them.  But a man that is "looking" is active in his dating because he will ask questions, or do things that will make you feel special. He will chase you. I asked the guy that I am dating what kind of woman is he looking for and he replied with "I am looking for".. There will be a difference in the treatment and mindset of a man. Do not go into a relationship blind. Ask questions. Remember the bible says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing! He should be looking!

 

 

I wish I could expand on this more but I really had to get this out of my head. I have to spend more time reflecting on past relationships to give more. But thanks for reading :) LIKE COMMENT SHARE

A Push for Women

Think it not strange that there is a movement to "push" or "birth" women in this season. If this is a season of acceleration, then you can't be accelerated without a "push" God help me preach! See when God is doing a major move or a special moment he uses a woman. Don't believe me. Ask Mary, mother of Jesus. In order for Jesus to come into this world *insert tongues* He had to be birthed into this world my a Woman. Still don't believe me? Ask Ester. She saved an entire nation of Jews when she was pushed into the kindom (she had no choice). So get ready women of God. He wants to strip you of everything that is not like Him so that you can be accelerated into your destiny! It's your time! Thank Holy Spirit for this revelation. May it touch the hearts of your people #Amen

Dating Your Distraction

Can we all agree that the devil knows what we like? Have you ever been in a relationship that completely changed who you were and by the time you realized it you were at rock bottom? Well that is what the enemy wants! He is out to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10) everything that God meant for your good.

When dating, it is important to guard your heart especially if you asked God to give you his heart. God's heart loves all people, but if you cannot carefully discern the intentions of the persons you are interested in dating, then the enemy will play on your mind.

As I have stated before, I told God that the next guy I date I want him to be my husband. Well guess what I did not realize? The devil was listening too. I must admit the signs were there. My guy friends had warned me, even my family. At that time in my life I was a young college student on fire for God. I was doing well in school and had a job. I felt like I was ready and could handle a relationship.

Now the devil knows what type of men I like. Tall, a man in church, athletic, musicians, dreads etc. lol. The last guy I dated was the Pastor's brother but he was nothing like the Pastor lol. It was hard for me to see that he wasn't from God because he was what I had liked. My type! To say the least, we had really good times and really bad times. The relationship ultimately pulled me away from God,

So here are some signs that helped me realize my ex was my distraction:

• When you start to do unholy/unclean things your partner does (ex. unclean music)
• When you are comfortable with sacrificing God for your partner
• If your prayer life has not increased
• When family and friends have noticed a difference in you
• When you stop doing what you were doing before you met your partner
• If you do more arguing then praying and resolving issues
• When you become afraid to take advice because everyone is saying the same thing
• When you have not seen a change for better in your partner

Please be careful in choosing your next partner. God will not send you anyone that will distract you from his love! Be patient! There is no rush! Enjoy being friends and let God handle the rest!

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MEN ARE MY WEAKNESS!!

Hey ladies! Just wanted to be transparent as a Christian woman and say that a man is my weakness. I tell people it's not sex or four play, but it's when a man shows even a little bit of love and affection (even for the wrong reasons) I fall. I realized this once I became single and turned my heart towards God and not a man. What God showed me is that it runs in my family (my moms side). Not to put my mom on blast, but she has not been too successful with her selection of men. So it's in my blood. In essence, I have to be careful about who I let in my life because only a man can take my attention away from God. So enjoy being single and learning about yourself. You will be surprised at what "spirits" run in your family. Please LIKE COMMENT SHARE.

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Choosing to be Single

04/17/15

I am a 24 year old single female. I have had my fair share of bad or unhealthy relationships and so I decided to take a break from the dating scene at the start of 2014. I have been single for over a year now, and I must say I enjoy the benefits. Don't get me wrong, at times it is not easy but I push through it because I know where I was and where I don't want to end up. See I am a lover. I love hard. It doesn't take long or the "right" person. I have good qualities but my issue was that I would use those qualities on the wrong person.

Just a little bit about my last relation, I was dating the Pastor's brother. I know that can sound funny but hear me out lol. We met in 2011. Prior to me meeting him, I told God that the next man I meet, I want him to be my husband. Long story short. While just getting to know him, he had a baby on me, talked to others girls using KIK or Tagged, and his family (the Pastor and his wife) did not like me. So here I was being faithful, loyal, trustworthy, basically a "ride or die" chick. When I decided to call it quits I was at rock bottom. My GPA in college had dropped, I had no money, and no place to live. I was broken and about to lose my mind.

Thank God for faith! I had cried out to God for the last time about this relationship and I told Him that I didn't want to ever go back. I lost myself and on top of that, I still had to graduate. This is just the surface level of my story. But I said all of that to say that you have to want to be single before you make the choice to be single.

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